Refer to libraries with soname if available and avoid loading libs twice

It is usually not optimal to load a library twice and for specifics,
it is **terrible** idea to load libc twice it was enough trouble
dealing with libc statically linked into ld.so. So What this patch does
it check for soname and if a library is already loaded it won't get
loaded again. Why soname ? because unfortunately some bins gets linked
againt libc.so while of their dependencies gets linked against
libc.so.6 while one is usually symbolic link for the other.